Most of us are experiencing great transformation as we navigate our lives during this paradigm shift happening on Earth. Every life area is impacted, including relationships. Many clients and friends have recently contacted me for information about what is going on in this arena, which is why I’m inspired to write about this topic for April’s newsletter. I’ve experienced many of the relationship nuances described throughout it!
Right now we are in the time of Venus Retrograde until the 15th of April. This is a time when we review and evaluate our relationships, deciding on the worth and value of those we are currently in, and considering the potential of those we haven’t begun. Although many might feel pulled to take action or make major life adjustments we are advised to wait until after the 15th when all has been reflected upon and processed.
Most of us are no longer operating predominantly in a 3D manner when it comes to relationships and sex. As we step more fully into 5D, we move from codependence to co-creation. We express mainly from a place of unconditional love and less from neediness or desire. For many of us, we are being asked to let go of who and what no longer resonates or fits, particularly when the energies or issues with certain others have been stagnant for too long. This is emphasized as well, when despite our best efforts no shifts have been made.
In this evolutionary time period especially, many are finding that in any kind of relationship–with a friend, lover, partner, or family member, there might come a time when separation or even a definite ending needs to happen. This does not mean you’ve failed or given up, or that the relationship wasn’t strong enough or the real deal. In many cases, it’s quite the contrary. Sometimes the highest spiritual partnerships need space and time for one or both people to heal a particular issue or expand in a certain way. Then they can come back together again when or if it’s right, and move forward into a deeper purpose and passion.
What does this mean for happily ever after? Does it even still exist in current times? I believe it does. But I do think that with most friendships and romantic partnerships it can be challenging if both people aren’t willing to do their inner work. Continuing to change and grow promotes long-lasting, spiritually-evolved relationships.
There is also a shift that is becoming more common in romantic partnerships and friendships these days. Many people in healthy, comfortable, and satisfying relationships are being pulled to new spiritual partners and friends, in order to fully participate in higher level potentials. These can involve soul mates; those who are part of our oversoul or another oversoul, or twin flames, the female or male counterpart of our individual soul. (For more info. on oversouls, read my previous blog post here). With soul mate and twin flame relationships, the purpose of coming together is to ignite mutual soul growth while bringing service to the world in a form the couple chooses. Twin flames, through the power that is emanated in their merging and wholeness, specifically help expedite the ascension process on earth.
Many people are confused at first as to why they are drawn to these new lovers or friends. We might not be easily impressed. Often soul mates and twin flames come in packages we don’t expect. Sometimes our higher level potentials are just beginning their awakening and will need a great deal of time/space and support during their transformational process. We might need to develop more courage, trust and patience, and be able to hang in there during periods of the unknown. Like any relationship, there is never any guarantee that the relationship will progress in a certain way or be long-lasting. This is where we learn to let go of attachment to outcomes, loving unconditionally.
What is most essential is your awareness. No matter what circumstance you might find yourself in above, if any of them apply to you, follow your intuition. Follow the pull even if it doesn’t make logical sense at first. You’ll know it’s likely a higher level partnership–soul mate or twin flame, if you feel expanded or activated in the other’s presence. You’ll experience a level of joy and connection like never before…And then, with all the love and excitement, the unhealed issues come up for release. This is where the willingness to do the inner work comes in.
Due to the depth and power of these relationships, it is difficult for many people to go back to stagnant partnerships and aspects of their lives. Of course, we always have our free will to choose. We might have our reasons for not choosing our higher level partners as well, especially when abusive or destructive behaviors are present. In these cases, time, space, and unconditional love can offer the support needed to help them shift in the short or long term, opening up the potential for you to be together if you desire to, later on.
In going forward and saying yes to our destinies, whether that be in continuing, ending or separating, and/or starting new relationships, we are becoming more whole, more expanded, more connected to ourselves and our divine essence. This leads to rewards in many forms, not just in relationships. It offers us the ability to experience a sense of empowerment, strength, trust, love, joy and fulfillment that has never been possible. We are able to do this because we have deepened the most important relationship of all–the one we have with ourselves.
Until the next bend of the journey,
Heather and the Guides
For those interested in extra energetic support, guidance, healing, and information during this time of the shift, join me in my upcoming tele-class with colleagues Wanda Vitale and Theresa Luttenegger, on Saturday April 22nd from 10am -12pm PST Details here
Saturday, September 17th from 6-7:30pm in Templeton. $35. Email or call me to sign up or for directions.
We could all use some extra assistance during these potent transformational times; especially this month with two eclipses and mercury retrograde! Celebrate the Fall Equinox and the full moon in this workshop as you set new intentions for yourself. Heal relationships, emotions, health issues and behavior patterns with the help of the horses!
Bring your intentions and a token of offering to the spirits of land and the horses in this powerful workshop for starting a fresh chapter in the book of your life! We will be working with the energies of nature and the full moon/equinox in sacred ceremony to fully access and activate our intentions. In the last half we will work with the horses for extra guidance, healing, nurturance, support, and empowerment with all of our upcoming changes.
The interactions with the horses will include active and reflective activities, all on the ground. No horse experience is necessary.
Bring snacks and water.
Cost is $35. Sign up deadline by Wed Sept 14th. Email or call me to sign up for directions: [email protected] or 805-451-1585.
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It’s not ironic that today is leap day. Or that this year is leap year. Not at all. That fabulous extra last day of February that buys us time before March, so true for what we need on a spiritual level these days. Time to prepare…
And right we should, because this month of March is going to be a powerful one! Much like last September’s blood moon/eclipse series/equinox, we can expect the same earth-shaking, soul-stirring, life-changing experiences to arise, while the emotions come tumbling out. If you found that time last year unbearable, with your world crumbling down around you, rest assured this next month should prove to ignite transformation while offering much smoother sailing waters.
We’ve had practice since September and now we know what we’re dealing with. We know what our issues are, where our weaknesses lie, and how to access our strengths. We have the moment’s notice to catch our breath before we go under water again, plunging into the depths for another round of our inner work. This we must attend to if we intend to come out on the other side on solid ground, shining our light more brightly in the world due to further healing, evolvement, and with readiness to move forward in our lives.
The guides are calling this time we’re headed into “the lightning bolt of March.” With the first eclipse, a total solar one, happening on the 8th, bringing the so needed vitality, inspiration, ideas and energy to get up and out there; to feel alive again. If you’ve been drained of money, energy, cheerfulness, health, clarity, or, you fill in the blanks here–just about anything, you’ll finally begin to get your bearings again, finding the inner and outer resources to want to participate in life.
Then the partial lunar eclipse on the 23rd, just shortly after the Spring Equinox on the 20th, gives us the extra momentum–the push forward, while supporting us with the masculine energy necessary to ground and manifest in our world. This translates into “take action” time. And for many who are and will be doing their work this month, it will be a much simpler and graceful process of bringing your gifts to the world and receiving abundance and healing. From the looks of things I’d say life in general can get a whole lot easier…!
So what does this required inner (or outer) work equate to, exactly? Well, taking leaps forward of course! According to the Angelics, we’ve been delaying this for too long, and if we truly go inward, we’ll know exactly what we’ve been avoiding when it comes to our soul’s growth and evolution as well as our external lives.
We can ask ourselves, what still remains in the shadowy realms when it comes to our painful memories, emotions, unhealed traumas, and other lifetimes? What skeletons in the closet do we still keep secretive, uncovered and undealt with, because we’re haunted by them? This is where we must have courage and be willing to go if we want an easier ride through the month of March. The same is true for taking leaps forward in our outer lives.
It may feel like you need the additional faith to take what feels like a risk, what brings up every level and layer of fear you’ve ever felt, what will push you past your comfort zone in so many ways. But you must do it, we all must be willing at this time, for the guides remind me that so much opportunity and reward lies just around the corner…if we make that first step on our own, taking our leaps as needed, like the fool in the tarot card.
We aren’t fools though, nothing of the sort. Because after we’ve surmounted our long-standing hurdles, we’ll be all the wiser. The metaphor the Angelics give me is that of a movie or book, an adventure, where there is suspense, uncertainty, possibly even danger. As the characters or actors of integrity carry on, being brave and true, using the strength all humans innately possess within, by the time the story or movie ends all is well and as it should be. This isn’t to say there couldn’t be loss experienced or heavy emotions felt along the way! But with most good stories something more important has been gained by the challenge. After all, it wouldn’t be very interesting to read or watch otherwise, would it?
Neither would our lives. Most people tire of boredom but even for those egos who cling to it, our souls ultimately chose to incarnate for growth and expansion. There is no other way around it. We can go the harder route and be dragged by the universe, kicking and screaming, or we can voluntarily move forward, as if we are the character in our favorite film or novel, doing what it is that we know we must!
What would you like to experience? The choice is yours. And you get to be creative about how you do it. What will your inner/outer changes look like? For so many, new careers/soul’s purposes, freedoms, relationships, lifestyles, health, and homes will be born. The seed was planted last fall. March is the beginning marker for the blooming of our crops, but we can expect to see them harvest throughout the rest of this year.
So we’re left now in planning and preparation time. From the Angelics: “The next seven days will prove to be very fortuitous indeed as you discover the inner and outer moves that are necessary for growth and change. Much that has been perplexing for you will be illuminated, as you receive an added helping hand from us and the many higher dimensional beings around you.” I can’t imagine a better sustenance and support as we rapidly approach the edge of our personal cliffs.
Enjoy the mystery and adventure!
Until the next bend of the journey,
Heather & the guides