Happy Full Moon in Libra and Easter weekend! We are still feeling these potent energies. The lunation of this moon has been shining outside my window so brightly the last few nights, keeping me awake and making me think that it was morning. This is so true for our awareness right now. It is literally illuminating much of what remains in the dark these days, especially with relationships. We are reflecting, reviewing, reconciling and in some cases, releasing relationships and issues connected with them. Use your spiritual and metaphysical practices and healing tools to help your process now. The cosmic energies can support our faith in our progress, but we must be willing to take the necessary steps too.
View your own history as objectively as possible by asking yourself the following questions with regard to relationships: What is fair and right for you? What energies inside of you attracted the types of people and relationship dynamics in your past and present? In this case, look for the common denominator that you share with the other person. Were you both afraid of getting hurt, or were you both acting insecure, controlling, or being dishonest or deceiving? Energies of betrayal and abandonment might be present as well. Look for the subtleties here. Perhaps you simply wanted harmony and tried to control by insisting someone change? Or maybe you lost your identity or rejected your truth in order to be accepted in a relationship?
It’s also important right now to speak up, clarify and set boundaries that promote self-love by honoring and respecting you! You might feel more vulnerable and sensitive than usual, which can make communication more challenging. During this time, some will discover new and deeper emotional territory, especially when this isn’t their strong suit. Others will tap in to hidden or previously unacknowledged desires or longings for family, community and a sense of home. These can all lead to bold new beginnings! But in either case, everyone will want to slow down more, and take time to feel through all decisions, opportunities and life circumstances.
In particular, if you feel a repetitive cycle is arising for you, ask yourself how you can do it differently this time. Sometimes repetitive events or patterns happen to show you how far you’ve come and push you to make a breakthrough. For example, if you are going back to an old job/career focus or find unresolved issues with work surfacing, how can you be more successful this time? What can you do to prevent burn out or empower yourself through the process? If it’s a repeating relationship issue, how can you call it out, walk away or rise above it this time?
Themes of of strength, empowerment, justice and integrity are showing up with regard to relationships and in many other life areas too. The universal energies and eclipse activations coming in on the 20th will support you this month, especially if you are taking action on what’s fair and just for you and others. If you’ve been also dedicated to your inner work, this is the time to see advancement and results in areas where you’ve struggled in the past.
You’ll notice that issues from the past don’t affect you the same way anymore. Compassion, forgiveness and unconditional love are essential, first for ourselves and then for others. Changes in these areas can improve our relationships. This helps us have better discernment which strengthens our self-trust and the ability to make wise decisions. When we can more fully trust ourselves, we’ll know exactly who is trustworthy in our lives.
So no matter how tender you might feel at this time, let yourself go deep into whatever emotional or healing process you are in, to release the pain of the past. With the energies of resurrection and rebirth so present at this full moon time, you’ll definitely gain the clarity to know what’s needed to move forward. And if you are ready and willing to take action on this awareness, you are sure to come through April’s fire of initiation profoundly transformed. :):):)
Blessings and love! ~Heather
PS: If you want more support during these times of healing and transformation, an intuitive guidance or energy healing session might benefit you. You can schedule a session with me on my services page here. Scroll down to the bottom of the page, to the Session Details box. I am now offering sliding scale rates!