by Heather Green | Apr 12, 2017
Most of us are experiencing great transformation as we navigate our lives during this paradigm shift happening on Earth. Every life area is impacted, including relationships. Many clients and friends have recently contacted me for information about what is going on in this arena, which is why I’m inspired to write about this topic for April’s newsletter. I’ve experienced many of the relationship nuances described throughout it!
Right now we are in the time of Venus Retrograde until the 15th of April. This is a time when we review and evaluate our relationships, deciding on the worth and value of those we are currently in, and considering the potential of those we haven’t begun. Although many might feel pulled to take action or make major life adjustments we are advised to wait until after the 15th when all has been reflected upon and processed.
Most of us are no longer operating predominantly in a 3D manner when it comes to relationships and sex. As we step more fully into 5D, we move from codependence to co-creation. We express mainly from a place of unconditional love and less from neediness or desire. For many of us, we are being asked to let go of who and what no longer resonates or fits, particularly when the energies or issues with certain others have been stagnant for too long. This is emphasized as well, when despite our best efforts no shifts have been made.
In this evolutionary time period especially, many are finding that in any kind of relationship–with a friend, lover, partner, or family member, there might come a time when separation or even a definite ending needs to happen. This does not mean you’ve failed or given up, or that the relationship wasn’t strong enough or the real deal. In many cases, it’s quite the contrary. Sometimes the highest spiritual partnerships need space and time for one or both people to heal a particular issue or expand in a certain way. Then they can come back together again when or if it’s right, and move forward into a deeper purpose and passion.
What does this mean for happily ever after? Does it even still exist in current times? I believe it does. But I do think that with most friendships and romantic partnerships it can be challenging if both people aren’t willing to do their inner work. Continuing to change and grow promotes long-lasting, spiritually-evolved relationships.
There is also a shift that is becoming more common in romantic partnerships and friendships these days. Many people in healthy, comfortable, and satisfying relationships are being pulled to new spiritual partners and friends, in order to fully participate in higher level potentials. These can involve soul mates; those who are part of our oversoul or another oversoul, or twin flames, the female or male counterpart of our individual soul. (For more info. on oversouls, read my previous blog post here). With soul mate and twin flame relationships, the purpose of coming together is to ignite mutual soul growth while bringing service to the world in a form the couple chooses. Twin flames, through the power that is emanated in their merging and wholeness, specifically help expedite the ascension process on earth.
Many people are confused at first as to why they are drawn to these new lovers or friends. We might not be easily impressed. Often soul mates and twin flames come in packages we don’t expect. Sometimes our higher level potentials are just beginning their awakening and will need a great deal of time/space and support during their transformational process. We might need to develop more courage, trust and patience, and be able to hang in there during periods of the unknown. Like any relationship, there is never any guarantee that the relationship will progress in a certain way or be long-lasting. This is where we learn to let go of attachment to outcomes, loving unconditionally.
What is most essential is your awareness. No matter what circumstance you might find yourself in above, if any of them apply to you, follow your intuition. Follow the pull even if it doesn’t make logical sense at first. You’ll know it’s likely a higher level partnership–soul mate or twin flame, if you feel expanded or activated in the other’s presence. You’ll experience a level of joy and connection like never before…And then, with all the love and excitement, the unhealed issues come up for release. This is where the willingness to do the inner work comes in.
Due to the depth and power of these relationships, it is difficult for many people to go back to stagnant partnerships and aspects of their lives. Of course, we always have our free will to choose. We might have our reasons for not choosing our higher level partners as well, especially when abusive or destructive behaviors are present. In these cases, time, space, and unconditional love can offer the support needed to help them shift in the short or long term, opening up the potential for you to be together if you desire to, later on.
In going forward and saying yes to our destinies, whether that be in continuing, ending or separating, and/or starting new relationships, we are becoming more whole, more expanded, more connected to ourselves and our divine essence. This leads to rewards in many forms, not just in relationships. It offers us the ability to experience a sense of empowerment, strength, trust, love, joy and fulfillment that has never been possible. We are able to do this because we have deepened the most important relationship of all–the one we have with ourselves.
Until the next bend of the journey,
Heather and the Guides
For those interested in extra energetic support, guidance, healing, and information during this time of the shift, join me in my upcoming tele-class with colleagues Wanda Vitale and Theresa Luttenegger, on Saturday April 22nd from 10am -12pm PST Details here
by Heather Green | Mar 2, 2017
It has been quite an adventure through the month of February, if you still find yourself standing up that is. Two eclipse sandwiches and we purified ourselves emotionally, mentally, and physically before the month’s end. If you don’t recognize yourself yet, give it some time. Be tender and compassionate with yourselves and others. Since this was such an intense process, we’re all being aligned and reset once again, so we can make our way to the Equinox ready and able to receive those upgrades and activations. But most of us, aware of it or not, are still reeling from all of the healing and clearing, both internal and external. If this is true for you, be reassured all is as it should be. With all of the shifts happening for us within, and the subsequent changes we see reflected back to us in our personal lives and in the world, there is always a time of confusion and chaos. Most will find these disturbing feelings and happenings, along with a lack or clarity or direction in what’s coming over the next several weeks. It’s a great opportunity to practice patience and trust. Where can you find that trust when all seems shrouded in doubt and the unknown?
We are beginning to see the budding fruits of our labors in many life areas as exponential possibilities for expansion arising individually and collectively, with positive events occurring as people come together for passionate causes. The women’s marches in January were a great example. Additionally, as the Pleiadians have often shared with me, “In the deep recesses of the heart, all shall be revealed. ” Go there when you despair or fear and the truth with always be made evident.
Energetically, so many areas are affected by transformation and will continue to be during this first half of the year. Relationships are highlighted. We are letting go of what isn’t in our highest and best or what doesn’t help us grow, while new connections with a potential for deeper spiritual partnership are being formed. And many relationships are on the fence as we relearn this dance between the divine feminine and masculine. The feminine is deepening her healing, moving through anger and rage from oppression, releasing memories and trauma of being abused or used, and feeling grief from being unvalued, unnoticed, or abandoned outright for far too long. It’s time for us to let this all go, so we can open fully to unconditional love.
From this stance, the feminine can hold space for the masculine as he begins taking baby steps in his vulnerability. As the feminine holds that supportive anchor of love and compassion, the masculine can put down his sword of competition, pride, conquering, control and so much more. There can be a balance with the sexes now, and the joy of true knowing and honoring.With the feminine and the masculine, we are also releasing old sexual energies and memories of neediness, uncontrollable desire/attachments, all related to survival in 3D. Sexual union can now become more sacred, more aligned with the heart center and unconditional love.
So if it isn’t enough to have relationships and sex on the brain, throw in the emotional components and major life changes and you’d think you’ve reached the end of your rope. The spinning and repetitive thoughts can be relentless. And if this is true for you, surrender to it. The energetic downloads are almost continuous now, and we are releasing what no longer serves. Fear patterns and grief are lifting out for most, but regardless of what you are feeling, go into it as much as possible while not attaching to any of it. Celebrate the fact that it is leaving for good and your new life and creations are just around the corner.
Many in their current changes are experiencing different levels of loss. With this comes a letting go of what had been safe and comfortable while following the calling of the soul. The old is falling away to make room for the new and upgraded. For myself personally I’ve had to make changes in relationships and residence that have been challenging and sorrowful, but I made the conscious choice to relinquish control and therefore allow my soul to move into higher levels of spiritual evolution and partnership, peace, unconditional love, and joy in all life areas.
Major transformations like this are comparable to birthing a baby. The labor is unbearable at times, overwhelming, and all consuming. But any temporary pain is so worth the reward at the end. And we will have those rewards coming to us in many packages: freedom, love, joy, connection, peace, fulfillment and abundance are just several. When and how this will all happen for each of us and collectively is yet to be certain, but most are already getting sneak peaks and sporadic moments with these gems now. Some of us are even experiencing these energies on a 24/7 basis, and this is all related to the level of healing/clearing that has been done.
But no matter where you are at, the important point is to continue on your path of integrity with determination, courage, and faith. As you die and are reborn again and again, your most authentic and enlightened self comes forth. From here, you’ll be crystal clear about what you really want and you will manifest these heavenly versions more simply and easily. From this place only are you truly the creator of your life and the co-creator of your bigger world. And this is the year, 2017, that we’ll begin seeing the changes we’ve been forever waiting for!
Until the next bend of the journey,
Heather and the guides
by Heather Green | Sep 1, 2016
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by Heather Green | May 4, 2016
This month’s newsletter title says it all. Most of us have felt the intense internal effects of this 5 planet retrograde cycle that will last for the next several months. Although with Jupiter going direct on the 9th and Mercury on the 21st, experiences should lighten a bit and become easier. I’m no astrologer, but I do pay attention to planetary cycles, pagan holidays like the solstices and equinoxes, and eclipses. I read the energy around them like I do when helping any animal or human on their life path. Due to the shift in consciousness happening on earth, at the time of particular planetary alignments, moons, and season changes, we always receive big downloads of transformative energy which help us grow and evolve.
That’s what this cycle is all about: healing and transformation. I know for me, life has slowed down a lot. If it has for you, this is good. It’s time to go inward. We are getting a big golden opportunity from the cosmos here, to really clean our slates. Start fresh. Get rid of all that baggage. And although this might seem redundant when it comes to the new age “heal thyself” lingo, I can’t emphasize enough that this IS the time. Because when our loads lighten substantially we’ll have the ability to fly free and effortless by the time summer solstice comes around. So ask yourself, how long have you been waiting? For how long have you wanted to see major change in your life? This could be in any area, but for all it can essentially boost us forward in our soul’s authenticity and mission work. Simply put: Be who you truly are and do what you came to do!
It takes guts that’s for sure, and the strength that comes with vulnerability. Think you’ve got it nailed down? If you’re still having emotional crashes and pity parties, you still have work to do. It’s time to go deeper in your self discovery and ultimately take off those masks! While in the depth you might be feeling great turmoil, doubt, frustrations, or mind-bending confusion. If your world is falling down around you, try not to stress too much.(Ha!). In fact, celebrate it. The same goes for loss. This is the death that comes before the beautiful new beginning with all the gifts, joys, comforts, and abundance that you’ve been creating thus far.
Back to the pity party though. Don’t beat yourself up if you’ve been going there. You’re meant to feel the drastic swing of emotions; that’s why you are human! Your reaction will begin to change though, more and more, and you’ll be less likely to find yourself going off the deep end. Instead you’ll be more of a witness, still experiencing the feelings, but just noticing. Those who are able to maintain the 5th dimensional consciousness while still in a 3rd dimensional vehicle and world are already creating from this emotionally balanced place.
And this is when the masterpieces become evident. This is where we are all headed. Embracing our own power along the way is essential. As the Pleiadians share, “Only you can heal and transform yourself, or release your illusions of limitation. To be free and sovereign you must play the part. This involves shifting your beliefs, a key piece in the process. Because as humans, you create with your beliefs.”
So ask yourself, what do you want to experience? Accept the beliefs that support that reality and give them your full attention! This can involve the work of uncovering wounds, patterns, and programming that led to the disempowering beliefs in the first place, yet who can deny the awesomeness of altering your inner life and outer world simply by choosing what to believe?!
There is more to manifesting here. According to the Angelics, “Sometimes you will have difficulty creating what you want because you’ve outgrown particular incarnational contracts with others. At that time it is appropriate for you to call forth the new ones, contracts where all beings involved carry a similar vibrational resonance.”
Before you incarnate and usually on an unconscious level while here on earth in a body, your soul makes contracts with others that you can potentially work with, live with, serve, or be in certain kinds of relationships with. Even your relationship with different parts of the earth or areas you live in involve a contract or agreement, one where you can learn from each other. But if by the time you meet these beings on your journey you have already mastered what you signed up to work with them on, the contract is then up for review. At that time, the other being or place will feel familiar to you, but you might be conflicted about them. You might also lack the desire to begin the relationship.
If you decide to forego the relationship, then you quickly attract in your next contract. If this one is more vibrationally resonant, than likely it will feel right and you’ll go for it. If not, you again move along to the next one. You can choose a contract that is not a perfect match. But often your time with this other being will be shorter and will perhaps serve more of a purpose of convenience. In this case, there is still always the option that the other being, through their desire to evolve, will rise up and become a vibrational fit in time. But while the contract is up for review, there will come a moment where only you can decide if you want to begin the relationship based on your feelings.
If this transpires during this astrological cycle, the crazy roller coaster ride of the retrogrades might strike you! A recent occurrence in my life exemplifies this. While looking at new places to live with my husband, we took our time, waited, and reflected on the right choice for us. I delayed…perhaps for too long, on my end of the decision. It didn’t look like we would get what we wanted. And then, oh the questioning, the doubt. Did I do the right thing? We turned around and then boom, everything shifted again. We did indeed get offered the place! Back to present and coming full circle. So we went for it!
Because the truth of the matter is that the future is yet to be seen. And the best advice I can give you is to work with the power of your awareness; your intuition in each moment. This brings the clarity that all of our souls are seeking during this amazingly transformative time. If you are clear and trusting, you truly can’t go wrong in your choices. You can never make a mistake. No matter how many times things change for you, and however topsy-turvy you might feel, you’ll always land with your feet on the ground. You’ll find yourself where you need to be, with the right beings, and for however long it serves all of you. And that my friends, is what this miraculous, highly accelerated time of growth and healing, and mutual love and connection is all about!
Until the next bend of the journey,
Heather & the guides
by Heather Green | Jan 1, 2016
Glad to be back with you all again after what already feels like the beginning of a long winter. Since the start of December as we approached the solstice and with Mercury Retrograde in full swing at the moment, it’s definitely a time to rest, relax, reflect, withdraw and replenish; to hibernate like the wild animals. I’ve needed the extended break to get my bearings before writing a post or doing an event, or anything for that matter.
If you’re in the same boat, you’re just where you should be. And for several reasons. There’s a lot happening with the energies, especially since the solstice. For one, we’ve now activated and are starting to utilize the new upgrades to our energy system, one that affects how we operate physically, mentally, and emotionally. In 5D this looks to bring more strength and efficiency for our physical bodies, speed and versatility with emotional processes, not to mention telepathy (think mind reading). But the transition equates to feeling tired, irritated, overwhelmed, edgy, as if you just can’t handle one more thing! Spending time out in nature or doing any kind of grounding activity will help you acclimate right now.
Each time we receive a download of transformational energy or an activation of our upgraded systems (at the Equinoxes and Solstices), we thereafter clear out another load of the unnecessary, heavy baggage on all levels of our being. Collectively, we’re working at the root chakra level. So health, money, issues about surviving/thriving are up to be released, whether they involve work, home, livelihood, or relationship…
Many have been hit especially hard since 11-11, shockingly so, and I know I was. And we’re not out of the woods yet. So if your health has plummeted, relationships have ended or become difficult, your money has drained, you can’t stand your job or you lost it, all at the same time, consider it a blessing in disguise. It’s a detox as the guides tell me.
Physically, because you are still at least partly carbon~you must take care of your body as much as you’re able. Proper nutrition, rest, and natural medicines are helpful. But because you are also crystalline, you can use energywork in ways you’ve never been able to before, to bring healing to the body. With illnesses look past the obvious sources to the “other life” causes for relief. Our bodies are feeling them big time. Memories of old injuries and traumas are coming up in the form of pain or disease in a body area. More rarely, some body discomfort is simply due to the transformational process but check in with your higher self to be sure.
When it comes to relationships and work…let freedom ring. This is again due to our processing in the root chakra area. We can no longer be slaves, we have no tolerance for the cookie-cutter programming that we were born into. And we can’t be trapped in relationships that feel confining, one-sided, co-dependent, or inauthentic. Many of us are even questioning those solid, stable, long-term, committed unions, reflecting on our choices and making decisions to stay, go, or make changes accordingly.
We can only be us, our truest selves co-creating with those of a similar vibration. Like Finn, the storm trooper turned rebel from Star Wars 7, it takes a great deal of courage and risk but leads to empowerment, happiness, liberty, and justice. And the alternative is, well, depressing to say the least. Most of us just can’t do it anymore.
As for money, like the physical issues, we have other lives playing a role here too. We’ve accessed the old “lack” tapes that have been recorded during times of hardship and loss and now it’s time to release. Overall I’d say go with the flow. Some helpful guidance from the Pleiadians in this life area and many is, “Don’t try so much. Allow. Accept, surrender, trust. Be open to take inspired action when necessary. This is key in all your endeavors. Wait for the spark of inspiration before you do anything. If you are tired, sick, unmotivated, or burned out, stop. Go play and enjoy your life. Take care of you and let whatever it is you desire come to you.”
So let go of those jobs, relationships, or current contracts with money that feel limiting or unreal! Heal and love your body. Embrace your life and the mission that calls you. Because the force (universal energy) is with us and will support us now, every step of the way. But like the fool card in the tarot deck, we are on the edge of the cliff and do need to make the move. Harness the trust. We will find ourselves on the other side, on solid ground.
Until next time,
Heather & the Guides
If you’d like more guidance, information, and assistance in working with the 2016 energies, especially in areas of health, money, and relationships, join the Guides and me for my next Teleconference Class, Thurs. Feb. 11th, 6:30pm PST. $25. If you can’t make the call live you can sign up for the recording! More details and to sign up here
Most of us are experiencing great transformation as we navigate our lives during this paradigm shift happening on Earth. Every life area is impacted, including relationships. Many clients and friends have recently contacted me for information about what is going on in this arena, which is why I’m inspired to write about this topic for April’s newsletter. I’ve experienced many of the relationship nuances described throughout it!
